Awakening the Queen: The Inner Throne
Transforming midlife unraveling into the grounded power of Self-Trust
There comes a time when the old ways no longer work
The strategies that once carried you — pushing harder, working smarter, holding everything together, being the reliable one, proving your worth, figuring it all out — begin to lose their energy and/or efficacy.
You may sense that the ways you were taught to live, succeed, and contribute no longer feel aligned with who you are becoming.
You may feel a sense of groundlessness, unsure what to believe or trust anymore.
For women who feel deeply attuned to both the beauty of the world and the weight of what is unfolding within it, this can be a particularly tender and disorienting time.
Your creativity may be asking for more space.
Your spiritual life may be asking for more honesty.
And somewhere inside, a quieter, deeper knowing is beginning to stir.
What if this is not a problem to solve—but the beginning of your Queen phase?
A different kind of power longs to emerge in midlife.
Midlife is often misunderstood. We may think that something is wrong with us, or that maybe if we just try harder, or just do it right, then “we’ll get over it.” Or maybe it’s just hormonal changes.
But for many women, midlife actually marks a profound turning point — a shift from being driven by external expectations and internalized “shoulds,” to living from a quiet, unapologetic, inner authority.
A shift from striving… to alignment.
From over-functioning… to truth and self-valuing.
From managing life… to listening to it and co-creating with it.
This is the awakening of the Queen:
a woman who no longer abandons her knowing, and who begins to live from a deeper center of presence, clarity, and self-trust.
The missing piece is self-trust.
Not as a concept.
But as a lived, embodied capacity.
Because most women have been shaped—subtly or overtly—to:
doubt their inner knowing
prioritize others over themselves
override their instincts in order to succeed or belong
So when life begins to reorganize from the inside out, it can feel unclear how to move forward.
Self-trust becomes the foundation.
About This Journey
Awakening the Queen: The Inner Throne is a four-week exploration for women who are ready to cultivate self-trust as the ground of their next chapter.
This is not a program about fixing yourself or becoming someone new.
It is an invitation to:
listen more deeply
release what is no longer true
and begin living from the quiet authority that is already within you
Together, we will explore how to root your life, your creativity, and your way of being in the world in a more authentic center.
What Begins to Shift
As you engage in this process, you may begin to experience:
A more steady, embodied sense of self-trust
Greater clarity about what is yours to do — and what is not
The ability to stay grounded in the face of uncertainty or complexity
A renewed connection to your creativity and inner life
A quieter, more powerful way of being and responding to the world
This is the movement from efforting…to living from your Inner Throne.
The 4-Week Journey
Week 1 — The Threshold
Understanding the midlife unraveling and recognizing the deeper intelligence within it.
Week 2 — Reclaiming Inner Authority
Seeing the patterns that have shaped your self-doubt and reconnecting with your own knowing.
Week 3 — The Creative & Spiritual Reorientation
Allowing your creativity, spirituality, and engagement with the world to reorganize from a more honest center.
Week 4 — The Inner Throne
Living as a self-trusting woman—grounded, clear, and aligned with what is truly yours to embody and express.
The Circle
This is a space for women who feel, in some way:
“I can’t go back to how I was living… but I’m not yet fully clear what comes next.”
Women who:
feel deeply
think independently
care about the world
and sense that their next chapter must be lived with greater truth
You will be in the company of others who are navigating a similar threshold.
There is nothing you need to prove here.
No role you need to perform.
Only a space to be honest, to listen, and to explore what is emerging.
About Your Guide
(You’ll want to personalize this section in your own voice.)
You might briefly share:
your experience working with women in midlife transformation
your understanding of the Queen phase as a developmental and spiritual threshold
your commitment to depth, honesty, and real integration
Keep it simple and real. This section builds trust through resonance, not credentials alone.
Practical Details
Format: 4 live sessions
Duration: 2 hours each
Location: (online / platform details)
Dates & Times: (insert)
Investment: (insert)
Group Size: (if limited)
A Quiet Invitation
If you feel the sense that something in your life is shifting…
If you can no longer quite live the way you used to…
If there is a deeper voice within you asking to be trusted…
And if you long to live in a way that is both true to yourself and responsive to the world you care about—
this journey may be for you.
Join the Journey
If you feel drawn to join this 4-week journey with a small group of beautiful and courageous women, here are the two steps:
Step 1: Complete the Registration Form
Step 2: Pay via PayPal
Testimonials:
"If you have the opportunity to take Margit's workshop --Awakening the Queen -- I say: don't hesitate! The workshop offers an overview of women's developmental stages, and zeros in on the a stage missing from many models, namely the "Queen" (as in "Maiden-Mother-Queen-Crone"). She explores the notion that around 50+ years old - many of us are blossoming into fullness we haven't known before: a fullness of energy, creativity, passion, purpose and joy. What would it be like to enter this time with intention - and to give and receive support in this unfoldment?
Margit is an embodiment of this herself. With consummate respect and warmth, and a healthy dose of mystery and mischief, she creates a container that feels both contained AND exciting, structured AND full of possibility. Margit is luminous, and uses that light generously to illuminate others. So valuable, and so much fun!" ~~ Jodi Kline
"Margit... you are such a gem. I love your presence and the way you are...you are so special and refreshingly unique... Your integrity and openness in how you express your brightness truly delights my heart and your many skills are a force guided by spirit...I'm grateful to feel love and connection to you."
"Thank you Margit. Today was miraculous. Such courageous women. The atmosphere was sacred. And so easy to Be and trust. And has a lot to do with your energy and approach. I needing the company of like souls. To be authentic. To breathe. To re-orient. Palms up."
"Dear Margit, I deeply treasure your brilliance, heart, depth, skill, grace, elegance, beauty, authenticity, courage, and the inspirational field you generate."
Your Host
Margit Bantowsky
Spiritual Coach & Teacher
Margit is a compassionate guide for women stepping into their Queen years. With a rich background in environmental engineering and psychology, Margit has transitioned from a life of burnout to one of spiritual awakening and empowerment. Now, she serves as a spiritual midwife, helping women navigate their transformative journeys with grace and wisdom.
Margit believes in the power of community and connection, and she creates intimate spaces where women can learn, share, and grow together. Her passion for supporting others is reflected in her workshops, which have helped countless women find their voice, reclaim their gifts, and embrace their unique paths.
Join Margit in this sacred journey toward awakening your inner Queen, and discover how to thrive in this empowering stage of your life.
What You’ll Gain:
Insights into your unique challenges and opportunities at this stage.
Understanding of the process of becoming a Queen, and your next steps
Connection with a circle of supportive women ready to share their journeys
A glimpse into deeper opportunities for personal growth and exploration
Location: A beautiful, private studio in the woods of West Olympia
Investment: $75
Maximum Capacity: 12 women
Some snacks provided