The Inner Throne: A 4-Week Journey
From midlife unraveling to grounded Self-Trust
When what used to make life “work” starts falling apart or feeling empty…
you need a deeper, truer, and more trustworthy voice to guide you.
“Margit has been a compassionate, insightful and skillful guide, as I have begun to unravel a lifetime of beliefs and conditioning.
Through our work together, I have begun to trust my own wisdom and am surprisingly more loving and compassionate with myself!” ~~ K.M.
There comes a moment when the way you held your life together… no longer does.
The ways you’ve known how to live — pushing through, holding it together, figuring it out, being the one others rely on — begin to falter.
What once felt solid now feels uncertain.
What once guided you no longer fits.
And beneath it all, a quieter, more unsettling truth begins to surface:
You no longer trust yourself in the same way.
Not your decisions.
Not your timing.
Not even your inner knowing.
A Necessary Unraveling
It’s not a failure, it is a threshold.
A necessary unraveling of the structures, identities, and inherited ways of being that guided your actions and helped you survive, but were never truly your own.
Midlife is often misunderstood. We may think that:
something is wrong with us
maybe we’re just not trying hard enough, or lack stamina or discipline
we just haven’t found the right way or the right attitude.
Although it can feel disorienting, a new horizon is opening up — a shift from being driven by external expectations and internalized “shoulds,” to living from a clear, quiet, unapologetic, inner authority.
A shift from striving… to alignment.
From over-functioning… to sovereignty and self-valuing.
From managing life… to listening to it and co-creating with it.
To living from your inner truth.
The missing piece is Self-Trust
It is not about becoming a better version of who you’ve been.
It is a landing…
in the place within you that knows, chooses, and stands.
Your Inner Throne.
It’s self-trust not as a concept.
But as a living, breathing, embodied capacity. As an inner rudder that allows us to discern and make coherent choices.
Because most women have been shaped—subtly or overtly—to:
doubt their inner knowing
prioritize others over themselves
override their instincts in order to succeed or belong
strive and push in a hyper-masculine way
So when life begins to reorganize from the inside out, it can feel unclear how to move forward.
Self-trust becomes the foundation.
“Margit meets me in a fierce way, tracking what is needed in order to take me to my next evolutionary edge.
She holds and comforts parts of me that are fearful, and she also asks me highly attuned questions that get to the heart of my process and inspire me to dare in ways that are in alignment with my heart’s greatest desires.
I feel grounded, inspired, and called forward as a result of Margit’s mastery. I highly recommend her as a coach!”
~~ L.O. spiritual teacher, healer
What You’ll Experience
Over four weeks, in a small, intentional circle of women,
you will be guided through a process that is both deeply personal and quietly powerful.
Through guided inquiry, embodied practice, art making, ritual, and safe companionship, you will:
Begin to disentangle your true knowing from conditioning and self-doubt
Reconnect with your inner authority—not as an idea, but as a lived experience
Learn how to stay with yourself in uncertainty, rather than abandoning yourself for temporary clarity
Start making clear, aligned choices from within
This is not a path of quick answers and easy solutions.
It is a practice of becoming someone with an inner compass.
"If you have the opportunity to participate in Margit's Queen work, I say: don't hesitate! She explores a blossoming into fullness we haven't known before: of energy, creativity, passion, purpose and joy.
What would it be like to enter this time with intention - and to give and receive support in this unfoldment?
Margit is an embodiment of this herself. With consummate respect and warmth, and a healthy dose of mystery and mischief, she creates a container that feels both contained AND exciting, structured AND full of possibility. So valuable, and so much fun!” ~~ Jodi
The 4-Week Journey
Week 1 — The Threshold: The Collapse of What Once Worked
What you thought you could rely on begins to fall away—and you start telling the truth about what is no longer working.
Together, we turn toward the unraveling as a threshold, gently separating your true inner knowing from the inherited voices and survival patterns that have been running your life.
Week 2 — Reclaiming Inner Authority
You begin to recognize the quiet, steady voice within you that knows—and dare to listen.
Through guided inquiry and embodied practice, you’ll start learning to discern clarity from fear, and begin making small, clean choices from your own inner authority.
Week 3 — Staying With Yourself in the Unknown
In the place where you don’t know what’s next, you learn not to leave yourself.
Rather than rushing to answers, you’ll practice how to stay present and grounded in uncertainty—allowing a deeper, more honest way of knowing to emerge.
Week 4 — The Inner Throne: Choosing From Within
You begin to stand inside your own life—no longer abandoning yourself to belong, perform, or get it right.
From this grounded place, you’ll learn to name what you stand for, make aligned choices, and take your first steps living from your Inner Throne.
Who This is For
Together we’ll create a circle for midlife women who sense that something fundamental is shifting.
You may recognize yourself here:
What used to work in your life no longer works in the same way
You feel untethered from your usual sense of clarity or direction
You’re questioning roles, identities, or long-held assumptions
You sense something deeper is emerging—but you can’t yet name it
You want to trust yourself, but don’t quite know how
You are not looking for more advice.
You are looking for what is true.
"Thank you Margit. Today was miraculous. Such courageous women. The atmosphere was sacred. And so easy to Be and trust.
And has a lot to do with your energy and approach. I was quite raw and open. Needing the company of like souls. To be authentic in my pain. To breathe. To re-orient.
Palms up."
NOTE:
This work tends to resonate most with women who:
have already done some inner work and can make deep contact with themselves
are skeptical of “quick fix” self-help programs and ready for something real
can appreciate (even if momentarily) the necessity of “surrendering to the process.”
What Makes This Different
This is not a typical personal growth program.
There is no formula to follow. Nothing to repair or improve. No version of you to “optimize.”
Instead, this is a space where:
You are not rushed toward answers
You are encouraged to stop, drop, listen, and honor
Your experience is not pathologized or fixed
Truth is valued over comfort
And self-trust is built through direct experience—not concept
The work is subtle, but it is not vague.
It will take courage. It asks something real of you, and it gives something real in return.
"Dear Margit, I deeply treasure your brilliance, heart, depth, skill, grace, elegance, beauty, authenticity, courage, and the inspirational field you generate."
“After years of hiding so many parts of myself, it feels scary to reveal them in front of people who I don't know very well. Margit is a skilled and compassionate teacher, who establishes an environment where everyone is welcomed, heard, and respected. Transformative and juicy work.” ~~ J.D.
About Your Guide
Margit Bantowsky
Spiritual Midwife, Teacher, and Guide for Women in Transition
Margit Bantowsky is a trusted guide for women moving through the profound threshold of midlife awakening. With a background that bridges analytical rigor (B.S. in Chemical Engineering) and depth psychology (M.A. in Imaginal Psychology), her work is both grounded and deeply attuned to the unseen dimensions of transformation.
After her own passage through burnout and awakening—including a direct, embodied shift in 2012—Margit has spent the past decade walking alongside women as a spiritual midwife, supporting them through disorientation, unraveling, and reorientation into a more honest and sovereign way of being.
Her work is not about self-improvement, but about self-liberation and self-trust.
She creates intimate, carefully held spaces where women can tell the truth, reconnect with their inner knowing, and begin to stand inside their lives with clarity and quiet authority.
Margit is known for her depth, precision, and unwavering commitment to what is real—helping women reclaim their voice, their ground, and the life that is truly theirs to live.
Practical Details
Format: 4 live sessions
Duration: 2 hours each
Location: on Zoom
Dates: March 31, April 7, 14, 21
Time: 3:00 - 5:00 pm Pacific
Group Size: up to 6 women
4-Week Journey Investment:
payment must be made in advance:
Full price: $345
Early registration (by 3/27): $315
2 scholarship spots: $254–$315
Individual Session Investment:
$95 per class
A Quiet Invitation
If you sense that something in your life is unwinding…
If you are tired of struggling to prove yourself, or to make your life work “better”…
If you are in the midst of this threshold, and something in you recognizes what is being named here…
you are invited.
Not because you are ready in some perfect way.
But because you long to know and trust who you really are,
and what you’re really here to do and be.
“[Margit] helped me to see how my anxiety was about "the person in authority" not believing my experiences are real…how I was doubting myself. [Margit’s] meditation helped me realize that actually I do know… I know what's true for me.
It became clear that I just need to speak my truth and go from there. It helped me get clarity around what I needed to do, instead of being stuck in worrying about others' responses.” ~~ K.L.
Join the Journey
If you feel drawn to join this 4-week journey with a small group of wonderful and courageous women, here are the two steps:
Step 1: Complete the Registration Form
Step 2: Pay via PayPal
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